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From Vatsala to Ehud, 2.10.95
Dear Ehud,
(...)At this moment, it is rather difficult
for me not to think about the future. Just a couple of minutes
ago, I was intensely concentrating at the microscope and
going through the slides awaiting my opinion. When finished
with this job, I continued to sit where I was, and caught
myself unaware, simply staring out through the window. I
was watching a man lifting his giggling child high in the
air, and his wife admiring her child and her strong husband.
The child (8 to 10 months old) had slings attached to both
his arms for intravenous lines, and the left side of his
scalp was shaven-a tell-tale sign that a neurosurgeon had
been scavenging around his brain. The positive side of this
picture was that the kid was in the very last phase of his
hospital stay, and looked well and ready to go home. Well
Ehud, excuse me for sidetracking into the medical history
of this kid, which I could not help noticing. The main thing
that caught my attention and held it for quite some time
was the togetherness and fun this family was sharing despite
the gloomy hospital environment. I could not, in my mind,
help replacing the man and the woman with you and me, but
for the kid I could not imagine a face. Well, it is togetherness
that touched me deeply, and I could not help myself saying
Yes when my mind asked me, Is this what you are looking
forward to in trying to work out a relationship with the
man whom you are likely to meet shortly?...
Vatsala . . .
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